Do you take things that are not yours?

"Kids are devils dressed in human form."

Whenever my friends hear this bold statement of mine, they either: (1) look at me in appal and shun me, or (2) laugh helplessly and comfort both me and themselves by saying, "I'm sure you're just joking."

I'm not. At least I'm not joking when I say I want to discipline the devil out of them. Figuratively speaking of course. I'm not exorcist.

I think it's no surprise to anyone when I say kids have many bad little habits, including stealing.

As shown in the picture is my collection of refillable whiteboard marker pens and glues. I bring them to class daily and use them extensively in class.

My kids know. When the teacher gives a worksheet, she expects it to be pasted neatly in the exercise book. Not having a glue because you are too poor or you forgot to bring one is not an excuse. The teacher has it ready. The students are expected to participate in the class discussion and contribute their answers by writing them on the board. 'I don't know' is not an excuse. You copy from your friends if you really have to.

But to be honest with you, the cost of these simple stationery adds up, and these things are so small that they are often overlooked and misplaced if they are not meticulously taken care of. Alas, in the end, tools are just tools. If I really have to, I can buy some new ones again. No big deal. Doesn't worth the fuss.

**Yet it is in these little things that our kids' ugly side revealed. They stole these stationery, either out of jealousy, vengeance, or excitement of not being caught.**

My heart ached at the sight of this little yet devilish behavior. I often lament when I realize they are doing it, because it hurts me (and my wallet), and more importantly it hurts them greatly, whether they realize it or not.

Kids, teacher has been there, done that, not get caught as well, and yes, nothing serious born out of that little habit, but I assure you, the remorse follows you for the rest of your life. And every time you see your colleagues or your own children do it, rest be assured, guilt is still there with you. Shame is there with you until you rectify every wrong. Or dedicate the rest of your life paying forward the "kindness" you once "borrowed".

Okay, done with my super long rant. Back to marking now.

(extracted from my Facebook post, written on August 26)